我們給孩子的最佳禮物Our Best Gift to Our Child

文 / 蔡曜陽夫妻  Written by Mr & Mrs Chua Yaoyang

天下父母心, 天底下的父母都希望望子成龍，望女成鳳。但，我們應該如何更好的去規劃我們的孩子的未來呢？其實，連已升級為人父人母的好友們也感到茫然。很多父母都以為他們很了解自己的子女，但其實並非如此。當孩子還未到能為自己做抉擇的年齡時，很多時候都是由父母來做決定。那身為父母的我們憑什麼來肯定我們所做的決定是明智的選擇？事實上，我們也不知道。我們只希望一切的演變是好的。可是，這樣的風險太大了。因為人生沒有幾個第二次，而時間也無法倒轉。最後，要承擔這一切的卻是我們的孩子。

我和太太選擇了先發制人的方式。我們並不想讓我們唯一的孩子冒這種風險，所以當我們的愛女出世之後，我們便立即雇請玳瑚師父為她批八字。

從八字的分析中，我們才能深知這孩子的一生。我們從中也能知道女兒的優點、缺點、習性以及她的個性。不僅如此，玳瑚師父也能明確的點出愛女這一生所會面對的障礙以及挑戰。玳瑚師父的八字分析是如此的仔細到我們能夠看透女儿的這一生。而她生命裡的每一個關鍵階段，也一一地顯示在我們的眼前。這是一個非常有利於我們的知訊。

相比之下，我們在撫養現已十八個月大的愛女的過程當中確實比其他的父母來的輕鬆許多。玳瑚師父的八字分析足以讓我們很有自信的引導愛女的前程，取得事半功倍的成效。愛女在托兒中心的表現優異並非偶然或幸運，而是我們依據了她的八字分析而選擇了一間適合她的學校。這只是冰山一角。 舉例來說，我們清楚的知道她適合在哪個行業發展，那當她要上高專選擇專修的課程時，我們才能夠給予她一個明智的建議。

以買車來做比喻，我肯定你一定會先去了解車子的规格、局限、潛能和使用壽命。你的車子能開多遠？哪一品牌的汽油最適合你的車？ 你可以如何將車子的潛能增加到最大？這和帶孩子沒分別。希望你能從我以上的比喻看到相同之處。

我們夫妻倆覺得沒有什麼禮物比給予我們的孩子的生命依據八字的分析，一個美好的開始來的更加的好。天下的父母都預想自己的子女會飛黃騰達，幸福和健康。而父母能為子女所做的最好的一件事，就是去了解他們的八字。您所擁有的這些知識，將會幫助您的孩子達到他的最大潛能。

我想衷心地感恩玳瑚師父的慈悲以及師父的專業道德。您真是我們一家人的救星！我希望在這裡分享了我的見證，能夠讓更多人明白八字這門學識的重要性以及八字對我們生活中的影響。如果您現在正在為自己和孩子尋找一位有這方面學問的師父，玳瑚師父即是我們所要推薦的最佳人選。 感恩。

All parents want the best for their children. But how do you start planning for your child’s future? Based on the feedback from my circle of friends who are parents themselves, most parents are clueless. Most parents would assume that they know their child very well where in actual fact they don’t. Before a child reaches adulthood, their parents will make most of the important life decisions. But how could parents be so sure that they had made a wise and informed decision? Well, they don’t. They just hope everything turns out well. This trail and error is just too risky, as life seldom have a second chance nor could we turn back the clock on bad decisions made. And it is the child whom will ultimately suffer.

My wife and I prefer to adopt a pre-emptive and risk management approach. We do not leave things to chances when it comes to our only child. Hence, when our baby girl was born, we immediately engaged the help of Master Dai Hu to analyze our baby girl’s Bazi destiny.

From the analysis, we were able to find out detailed life patterns of our child. We also knew our child’s strength, weaknesses, habits and character traits. On top of that, Master Dai Hu was able to identify the hurdles and challenges that our child will face in her life. Master Dai Hu’s Bazi analysis is so detailed that we could see our child’s life in its entirety. Every critical stage of her life was revealed in front of our eyes. This is very powerful and useful information.

As compared to many parents around us, we have a relatively easy time raising our 18-month old baby girl. Master Dai Hu’s Bazi analysis allows us to confidently navigate through our child’s life, thus getting the most optimal results with minimum effort. My child excels in her playgroup because we choose the right school for her., not by luck, but by making an informed decision based on her Bazi analysis. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. For example, we know exactly what type of career is suitable for her and hence we are very certain that when it is time for our child to choose her field of interest in her tertiary education, we will be able to advise her accordingly.

Using the analogy of buying a car, I am pretty sure you would find out the specification of the car, its limitation, potential and life span. How far can your car go? Which brand of petrol is most suitable for your car? And how can you maximize the intrinsic potential of your car? It is no difference when it comes to your child. I hope you can draw parallel from my analogy above.

For my wife and I, we cannot think of a better gift for our child other than giving her a great head start in life by planning according to her Bazi destiny. All parents envision their child growing up to be successful, happy and healthy. Having your child’s birth chart analyzed is the best thing parents can do for their precious child. The information you received will go a long way in helping your child reach his/her fullest potential.

I would like to thank Master Dai Hu for his compassion and professional ethics. You are indeed my family’s life savior! I hope by sharing our testimonial, more people will came to understand the importance of Bazi reading and its effect on our life. If you are looking to engage one Master for your child and yourself, we cannot recommend Master Dai Hu enough.

Thank you.