歡愛後的代價The Price of Unbridled Love

年輕時，從來都沒有想過，感性與性感是什麼意思，尤其是感性這兩個字。後來經修行有了悟境，才「理智」的看待，感性與性感之間的不同處。感性者，是對一切的人情事故，很直接的反應。性感者，是對異性外在方面的直接反應。比方說，妳你觀看一部連續劇，妳你閱讀一本小說，妳你的朋友，響妳你傾訴她他的遭遇等等，妳你的淚水不由自主的落下，這就謂之於感性也。

吾，玳瑚師父，認爲感性較易處理，性感所衍生的問題，那就沒那麼容易處理了。感性的感在前，顯然的出錯在一個「感」字上。一個沒修行的凡夫俗子，自身的感覺，以及對方給於妳你的感覺，大多甚至幾乎全部，皆是錯覺也。而這些錯覺，亦是「不理智」的情況下所產生之。性感的性在前，顯然的跟「性」有連接的關係。性感這兩個字，往往也多用於稱讚女性如：她的打扮裝扮很性感，她的身材很性感⋯⋯。

吾，玳瑚師父，在此勸請先生女士小姐們，千萬別誤以爲穿小就是潮流，若妳你有此想法的話，可見妳你的想法有多落伍。告訴妳你哦！這世界是充滿了「色素」的啊！妳你再製造更多的「色素」的話，妳你遲早變成「KIMCHI」（泡菜）。什麼意思？污染也。污染自己也污染她他人，罪過也。感性是一種情志的表現。性感則是一種體態的表現，千萬勿搞錯才好。大多的男女，皆因這種「體態的表現」，而焚毀了原始原有的道德，當初共結連理的承諾，一失足成千古恨啊！

據吾所知，凡是犯邪淫的人，命終將轉投畜生道五百劫或更多，做狗、雞、豬、蟲類。待劫滿再轉投做下等人，如：苦力、僕人、卑女、終身不被尊敬的人，等等同樣五百劫或更多。就算劫滿轉投較好等級的人，妳你所說的話，也祇有較少人會聽。這樣的「來來回回」，真不知何世才能做個，真正有福氣的人啊！所以吾常告誡那些八字、面相、骨骼、名字、家居風水，有濃濃淫味的男男女女，一定要專一。要不然，將來妳你的名字，就真的要叫阿豬、阿雞或阿狗了。佛法有斷淫的法門，若妳你不想「披毛戴角」，玳瑚師父願意救渡妳你。

In my younger days, I had never thought about the true meaning of these words: sentimentality and sexiness. It was only after I attained a certain level of awareness in my spiritual practice, I began to rationally look at the difference between sensibility and sexiness. Sentimentality in a person means that he or she has an acute sensitivity to the people and events in the surrounding. Sexiness refers to the awareness and reactions to people of the opposite gender. For example, if you experience deep emotions and tears easily when watching a drama serial, reading a book, or when a friend confides in you, you belong to the group of people with high sentimentality.

Master Dai Hu feels that it is easier to deal with sentimentality, compared to the problems that sexiness brings. Sentimentality deals with one’s emotions and senses. And more often than not, the emotions of a mere mortal are illusory, the feelings that others give us are misperceptions. Such illusions and misperceptions are conceived from poor logic. On the other hand, sexiness leads us to the connotation of sex, and often associates with the female gender. For example: “She dresses so sexily” or “She has got a sexy figure. “, etc.

Master Dai Hu hereby reminds all ladies not to mistake being scantily dressed as the trend nowadays. You are old-fashioned if you think that way. Let me tell you, this world is already saturated with “colouring pigments”. If you are going to create more “colours”, it is a matter of time that you would become kimchi. Heavily tainted, that is! Tainting yourself is also tainting others, and this is a sin. Sentimentality is a show of emotions, while sexiness is a display of physical attributes. Don’t get this wrong. Obsessed with the human display of physical attributes, many men and women had abandoned their innate morals and destroyed the marriage vows they made. How regretful!

To my knowledge, people who has committed sexual misconduct will suffer the fate of reincarnation in the animal realm for at least 500 lifetimes, taking the form of a dog, chicken, pig, worm, etc. After which they will return to the human realm and be reborn into a lower class, taking on roles such as a coolie, servant, maid, never gaining respect for the entire life, for at least 500 rebirths. Even if you have a better human reincarnation, your words will not command much respect or following. Such a tenuous game of never-ending rebirths, nobody knows when one can finally and truly enjoy good fortunes! This explains my endless reminders to those who has the high tendency for sexual indiscretions, to stay loyal and faithful in the relationship. Or else, your name will be Piggy, Chicky or Doggy for real. How can I tell? Through one’s name, Bazi, facial features, bones structure, home Feng Shui, etc. The Dharma teaches the way to end your sexual desires. If you don’t wish to wear fur or horns on your skin next lifetime, Master Dai Hu is willing to help you.